Dalai Lama said "if you think only of yourself, if you forget the rights and well being of others, or worse still if you exploit others, ultimately you will lose. You will have no friends who will show concern for your well being.
Moreover, if a tragedy befalls you, instead of feeling concern, others may secretly rejoice.
By contrast, if an individual is compassionate and altruistic and has the interest of others in mind, then irrespective of whether that person knows a lot of people,
whether that person moves or not, he or she will immediately make friends and when that person faces tragedy, there will be plenty of people who will come to help."